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By Carol A. Josel

Children learn the importance of family time by our good example. Game nights, road trips, and vacations all send the message that being together is a top priority; however, so do rituals, traditions, and every day actions. Says co-founder/president of the Families and Work Institute, Ellen Galinsky, “The bedtime story, the good-morning wake-up — these are the things that your children will carry with them into adulthood.” Make no mistake about it; it’s the little things that count.


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We know parents have a huge impact on our personality development, but what about our brothers and sisters?


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By Stacy DeBroff

Forming the “in-crowd” reaches its peak in adolescence, but it can start as early as preschool when parents are setting up play-dates for their children. Feeling ignored is painful and lonely for any child—and difficult for you as a parent when your child goes through this.

  • Start early with setting up play dates. Try to organize get-togethers withparents of children who seem especially outgoing or popular.

Monday, 18 September 2006 08:54

SIBLING STRATEGIES
AVOIDING COMPARISONS BETWEEN CHILDREN


• It’s natural for your children to compete for your attention. Sibling rivalry becomes even more intense when the children are the same gender and within three years of age.


• Don’t compare siblings, hoping to challenge or motivate your straggler to perform as well as your higher achiever. Comparisons among siblings only serve to make one child feel bad or less loved, and to intensify an already inherently competitive relationship. Trying to win your approval or outshine a sibling can soon eclipse the activity itself.


Thursday, 08 June 2006 06:58
ImageSome children will be ready for sleepovers at age four and others will not feel comfortable until well into their elementary school years. To assess readiness, focus primarily on your child's enthusiasm for giving it a try. Also, make sure that your child can settle herself down to sleep and get back to sleep if she wakes up in the middle of the night.

Thursday, 08 June 2006 06:55
ImageThe best way to reduce the number of sibling fights in your home is to stay uninvolved whenever you can. One less person shouting makes your home that much more peaceful. Of course you do have to get involved sometimes, when the noise level becomes unbearable, when your children's emotions have gotten away from them, or when someone has been hurt.

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