Regardless of the grades your child brings home, look for something positive to comment on first. Even a slight improvement deserves a positive comment, and if your child has been having a fair amount of trouble in a specific area, the attention you give to his improvement can encourage him to continue his progress. If your child feels proud of a grade for which he worked hard, compliment him on the success of his efforts.Show compassion and understanding when reacting to a bad report card, even if you feel disappointed. Talk with your child about what went wrong. A grade that comes as a surprise to you can be unexpected and disheartening to your child, as well.