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Tuesday, 22 May 2007 19:00

Mom_with_babyI caught an interesting story out of London recently – 25% of the spots in nurseries are open as more and more mothers decide to stay home with their kids. In fact, over the course of just five years, the number of these British vacancies has doubled. And this from the home of the famous British nannies?


Amidst all of the press about mothers facing increased pressure regarding the decision to stay home full-time or return to work after having kids, it seems experts in London are considering this to be the beginning of the end for the so-called “have-it-all” generation of women.


Thursday, 17 May 2007 19:00

517x3qbrwl_aa240_With it's bright red jacket alerting boys to dangers lurking within is thick manila pages, along with old fashioned turn of the century (that is the turn of two centuries ago) text, what could be more alluring? Say hello to a phenomenon sweeping the universe of our  boys, whose sheltered lives with adults and clipboards present at most of their after-school play hardly engages them in the best techniques of building a treehouse, making paper boats, and making an awesome go cart.

Welcome to the world of Brit brothers Gonn and Hal Iggulden who as grown boys tramped back out into the woods, fields, and garage to capture the lost art of knots, pinhole projectors, creating your own fishing rod, and spotting cloud formations.


Sunday, 13 May 2007 19:00

Mom_in_aptAlthough I missed the original New York Times article, “Mommy and Daddy’s Little Life Coach,” which spoke about marked changes in the parent-child relationship these days, I did happen to notice some of the backlash to it in a few other articles.  The focus of the article is on the fact that more and more parents are going to their children for advice about everything from what to wear, where to vacation, and, in the case of one New York mother, when to sell her apartment!

One article in the Augusta Chronicle and the Chicago Sun Times claims that it would do kids a lot of good to remain in their traditional positions, pointing out that kids and teens make decisions based on emotions, rather than sound judgment (shown scientifically with MRI brain scans), and claiming that the point of parenting is not to be their teenager’s friend. (That last part I agree with.)


Friday, 11 May 2007 19:00

MelaniegriffithsVery few of us can honestly say we weren’t a little interested when we heard the news of the latest celebrity debacle. We may have even picked up that tabloid in the grocery store line to peruse the gossip. After all, we’re only human. And somewhere, deep down, maybe we do take some pleasure in the fact that seemingly perfect celebrities are not only imperfect, but sometimes wildly flawed.

Which is why it was surprising to come across a recent article about how parents can learn a few lessons from their favorite gossip column personalities. That is, until I actually read the article.

Dr. Laura Berman, writing for the Chicago Sun-Times, picked out 3 important details that all parents should know. Of course, they probably know them already, but sometimes Hollywood can be a little behind.

First: a parent should not try to be a child’s friend. Kids have enough friends – what they need is someone who can set clear limits, not someone who is afraid to say no. It is a large problem not only amongst celebrities, but also for many parents of “Generation Me.” But with expensive toys and games, all-expense paid vacations, matching (and not to mention inappropriate) mommy-and-me outfits, and even parents taking their teens to clubs, celebrities may have surpassed the rest of America when it comes to this destructive trend. I didn’t see the photo of Melanie Griffith lighting her daughter’s cigarette, but somehow it doesn’t surprise me.


Thursday, 26 April 2007 19:00

2007_turn_off_your_tv_weekThis week is National Turn Off Your TV Week, a time that is still annually met by many families with a brief reflection, a shrug, and a continuation of business as usual. But the truth of the matter is that American families are more electronically plugged in than ever before - and I’m not just talking about the kids and their Playstations. 

June Cleaver might be shocked to take a look at what has now become the classic all-American family room moment. While one kid controls the TV, the other listens to her ipod and text messages friends on her cell, while Dad sends emails to coworkers from his Blackberry and Mom jumps online to shop and research summer camp. Not a word is spoken. It’s happening in living rooms across America every day.


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