Question: When can you be related to someone and yet still be a complete stranger? Answer: When you’re an in-law.

This book, written by Deborah M. Merrill, whose interest in the topic of in-laws began (when else?) after her own engagement, is based on a study she did with over 50 daughters-in-law and many of their mothers-in-law. Her look at one of the most complicated of all familial relationships is both systematic and scientific.

Although mothers- and daughters-in-law are often portrayed negatively and serve as the source of numerous jokes, Merrill works to dispel these longstanding rumors. Her research helps establish the truth about this sometimes challenging association, and help both parties to strengthen their relationship. Although Merrill explains there can be a huge variation in the relationship between a wife and her mother-in-law, from bitter rivalry to loving devotion, the information and advice in this book can help women understand and create the type of relationship that will be satisfying no matter where they fit into that spectrum. Although Merrill’s idea was initially met with resistance from many who thought this topic was too controversial, her look at the in-law relationship is ultimately both informative and beneficial for all women, who will find themselves connected to their in-laws, like their husbands, “til death do us part.”

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