If he would have just said, "I am talking to someone or interested in someone else", then thats fine, but up until a few weeks ago he was still telling the kids that he may come back home some day and according to the "others" (through guys he works with) he wanted to get back with me. Thats what hurts. Not in a crying oh I am woe is me kinda hurt, just "why the heck" can't you be truthful hurt
Just feel like I have been wasting my time with him.
You are right I won't stoop to his level. I am not going to him that I know of it. I am going to proceed with the divorce as scheduled.
Oh, he's also complaining to me that I have not given him enough clothes for the kids- I gave him a whole basket of brand new ones on the 4th of July. I told him to tell me if he needed more, he said it was plenty. Now he says morgan only has 1 pair of pj's and no play clothes. I asked what he did with the clothes- because he complained I sent too much!
I told him to make a list for me and that I would go ahead and give him more- he started to tell me on the phone. I said I am not your secretary (thats the girl he's talking to at work). I said MAKE A LIST and I will get you what you need.
He said a definite "NO" to any sort of councelling! 
