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Reading
aloud to your child increases his vocabulary, expands his knowledge,
improves his listening skills, stimulates his imagination, sharpens his
observation skills, promotes self-confidence, and builds
problem-solving skills. It also allows him to enjoy and appreciate
literature that is too challenging for him to read himself.
Find
a regular time and place for reading every day. Choose a time when you
and your child are relaxed, such as before bedtime, and read for as
long as he is interested. Before you begin, make sure he is settled and
ready to focus.
Vary
your tone and pace, and make reading enjoyable by using different
voices and expressing the emotions in the text. Create suspense and
anticipation, while giving your child time to absorb the content and
pore over the illustrations by reading at a slow speed.
Children
often look like they are distracted when they really are paying
attention. Fidgeting and squirming doesn't necessarily mean your child
isn't listening. If you have trouble getting a very young child to sit
still through a book, try reading to him in the tub.
Ask
questions to make sure he stays interested and engaged. Check to see if
he remembers the order of events. Get him to tell you, in his own
words, what he thinks the book is about. Ask what he thinks will happen
to the main characters at various points in the story.
Encourage
your child to follow the text on the page as you read to him. Pointing
to the words as you read helps him learn how to pronounce difficult
ones.
Help your child discover
the meanings of words he hasn't seen before, and make sure he feels
comfortable asking questions about the story. Encourage interruptions
and respond to his insights with comments like, "Good thinking!"
Ask
your child more "why" than "what" questions, such as, "Why do you think
the character made that choice? Why do you think the story ended that
way?" Analytical questions help your child become a better thinker.
Encourage
your child to tell you his own stories, and challenge him to come up
with alternative endings to the stories you read together.
At
several key points throughout the story, ask your child to predict what
will happen next anddiscuss whether the events in the story could
really happen.
Discuss any moral of the story, as this gives you a chance to subtly impart your values and ethics.
Reread your child's favorites again and again. Relate incidents in the book to occurrences in your child's life.
Never take away reading time as a punishment for your child. Instead, offer extra story time as a treat he can earn.
Don't
stop reading aloud together once your child begins school. Research
shows that children whose parents continue reading to them and
listening to them read become more competent readers.
Some intriguing questions to ask your older child when reading aloud:
Do you find the characters interesting and believable? Do you relate to any one in particular?
Where does this story take place? Is the book set in the past, present, or future? What season is it?
What distinguishes the characters from one another? Which characters are the main ones and which are supporting?
Teach
your child to identify the basic story line as well as the characters,
their relationships, the roles they play, what they should or need to
do, their personalities, unique identifying traits, personal obstacles
to overcome, what is at stake, how a character changes, what he learns,
how we learn about the characters' major conflicts, points of view, and
what we know as readers that the characters don't.
Also
point out how information is conveyed in a book including description,
narration, symbols, metaphors, irony, allegory, parable, sentence
structure, vocabulary, contrasts, and parallels.
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